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A couple days ago January 1, 2013. I sent an e-mail off to Wendy's mom Sally via Facebook asking to speak with her and Tom about something and that something was for Wendy's hand in marriage. However; I guess they interpreted it as that I wanted to ask Wendy right away. However, I was only asking for permission and or their blessing so that I may do just that at a later date. What pissed off me on is that they used Wendy to pass their negative news on to me instead of telling me out right. Ever since Wendy told me their decision every possible scenario has been running my mind and I am all torn-up inside. I do not know what to think what to do. I do not even know if I should continue the relationship that I have with Wendy. Yes I do love her and I know she says she loves me and on some level I believe that, however I guess I'm just a little too old-fashioned because it probably came as a shock to her folks that someone would actually ask for their daughter's hand in marriage.
But what can you do there are very shallow people here in California, and it hurts me to say that Wendy's parents are probably just that because from what Wendy has told me they treat her just like my folks treat me and how they're very protective of her and I understand that what I can't understand is why they are so protective of their daughter, who has and still insists on saving herself for her husband and their wedding night.
Wendy is grounded in her faith and believe me that is something I respect the fact that she wants to save herself for her wedding night. I've never known a woman like that it just irritates me and eats me up that her parents basically look upon me as a piece of trash and I don't know what I need to do. Do I need to have a five figure income to impress them, do I need to have a BA or better, have a house of my own, no medical issues???
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